Hey dear readers,
First of all, I’m very sorry that I haven’t written here since October. I was so busy with my study and some family issues. I also started a new project with other people, so I was kind of distracted. But I’m back; at least I try to write a lot more. Especially when there has been so many new subjects that I need to tell you. So much has happened in those three months.
Before I forget, and I know it’s way too late, but I wish you all a Happy New Year! I can’t believe 2017 is over, and that 2018 is already two weeks here. I literally have almost no idea what I did last year, that’s how fast it went by. I’m joking. Still, it went by pretty fast.
Alright, let’s get to the subject of the day. As many of you know, I’ve a crush on a guy. I told you many times before about Mark, and my concerns regarding our ‘relationship.’ That’s a big word to use honestly, but I’ve no idea how else to describe it. Anyway, let me get to the main question.
Knowing if you’re in love is a pretty hard thing. You might feel butterflies, you might find someone extremely attractive or someone says or does nice stuff to you. But when does that mean it is love? Do you need more signs than just one or two? How would you know if someone is in love with you? Or will you only know when someone tells you?
For example, someone who hugged you, placed his hand on your shoulder, called you dear and promised to protect you. But he changed. He became short with words, no messages of his side and he’s way too busy all the time to go on a date with you. Was that love, or was it just fake? Or is it still there, but doesn’t he know what to do with his feelings?
Then, we’ve a guy who never seemed as your type. Yet you talk a lot with him, and you share the same passion as well. He travels a lot for his work, and when he isn’t online, which is often the case, it makes you scared. He buys you a souvenir and tells you, he’ll be there for you. He wants to support you; he tells you you’re not alone in this. You can always call him, but only when he’s back at home. Is that love? Is it obvious, or not?
What if you like the first type, but start to wonder if your love for him is still as strong as it was before? And what if you like the other type, but you’re not completely certain if you can be more than friends? What would you do?
What do you think? Which type would you prefer more? Don’t forget to think about the positives and negatives from both types!
Lots of love, ‘Daphne’